| Location | Bognor Regis |
| Age | 55 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 21/06/1940 |
| Date of Death | 06/03/1996 |
| Visitors | 1,079 since 19/08/2007 |
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Dedicated to my mum Violet who passed away 6th march 1996 from secondary breast cancers.
She was only 55 years old.
Born 21st june 1940.
Mum was a housewife, mother to 2 boys & 2 girls & when she died grandmother to 7 grandaughters & 1
cherished Grandson. 2 grandaughter's you actually saw come into the world...1st grandchild Amy & 3rd
grandaughter Rebecca.
Kimberley, her 5th grandaughter was born with Angel wings 14/9/90.
My mum was kind, gentle and had a wicked sense of humour!
Always there for us, and others. She is missed very much.
She was the bravest person i know & she battled hard to beat her cancer but...sadly it all got too
much in the end. With her family all around her she slipped away. No more suffering, no more pain.
R.I.P Mum. I love you.
You are now with my sweet baby Angel Kimberley.
Look after Kimberley for me like we discussed & i'll see you again one day.
Mum adored Englebert Humperdink...the song playing is her favourite.
Brought a tear to my eye hearing it again today.
I chose my own song i love for you mum...what else but MAMA I LOVE YOU!?!
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A Rose once grew where all could see,
sheltered beside a garden wall,
And, as the days passed swiftly by,
it spread it's branches straight and tall.
One day, a beam of light shone through a crevice that had opened wide - The rose bent gently
toward's it's warmth, then passed beyond to the other side.
Now, You who deeply feel it's loss,
be comforted - the rose blooms there,
it's beauty even greater now,
nurtured by God's own loving care.
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if roses grow in heaven lord please pick a bunch for me,
place them in my mothers arms and tell her they're from me.
tell her i love her and miss her
and when she turns to smile
place a kiss upon her cheek
and hold her for a while.
because loving her is easy
ill do it every day
but there's an ache ' within my heart
that will never go away.
Mum loved roses...her favourite flower.
though maybe it should of been violets???
for that is her name...
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Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free
I’m following the path God has laid you see.
I took His hand when I heard him call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work, to play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life’s been full, I savored much
Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee
God wanted me now; He set me free.
author unknown
R.I.P Mum. XxXxXxXxXxXxX
♥ REMEMBERING ♥ (Author Unknown) ♥
♥ There will come a day
♥ when your tears of sorrow
♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...
♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.
♥ There will come a day
♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
♥ as a sunshower of the soul...
♥ a turning of the tide...
♥ a promise of peace.
♥ There will come a day when you will...
♥ risk loving...
♥ go on believing...
♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.
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*** Love to you My Special Angel. ***
Happy Birthday Mum! xxx
It's your birthday time again
& i'm missing not just my mum but also my friend.
Stolen from me all those years ago
But loving you is forever & i miss you so.
Remembering your infectious smile
You laughing all the while.
Never letting on when things were bad
& didn't want to see us sad.
Brave, strong & worldly wise.
Now watching over us from the skies.
Happy Birthday my Beautiful Mum. xxxxx
As your birthday approaches mum...
Letter From Heaven
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things,
we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
and each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
please try to understand,
that an Angel came and called my name,
and took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready,
in heaven far above,
and that I'd have to leave behind,
all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
so much yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible,
that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
that this could never be,
for emptiness and memories,
would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
from His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity,
and all I've promised you".
Today for life on earth is past,
but here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
but today will always last,
and since each day's the same day,
there's no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful,
so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,
you knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
and now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
and share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
(Unknown)
6/3/09
13 yrs ago today
you left us & flew away.
Free from pain
you reached God's lane.
The gate opened to your smile
& you looked back a while.
Saw us here all feeling lost
you soon reminded us who's boss!
Though we miss you so
our Hearts will never let go
memories are forever
of us all together
you walk beside us every day
you join in with laughter & play.
you haven't completely gone
In our Hearts you live on.
God bless you mum
now Angel to some.
an Angel to me always
along with my babies.
Watching over us here
& holding us dear.
Thoughts of you today are raw
memories we can't ignore.
REST IN PEACE MUM!
LOVE & MISS YOU...FOREVER.
Mum...
You gave me life...
fed me,
clothed me,
held my hand
& kissed away my tears.
Thanks so much for everything
you did all those years ago!
Love u mum. Always. xxx
A Poem i wrote for you mum called Reflection.
I look into the mirror, what do i see?
My beloved Mother looking back at me!
Why is she there each & every day?
Is she trying to tell me something this way?
To remind me to live my life to the full maybe?
Or just to comfort & let me know she is there?
That she is with me & she still cares?
Or is it that i'm a reflection of her being?
People who knew her say that's the image they're seeing.
You look so much like your mum they say to me.
Granted i do but she was unique so how can it be?
My mother was special, brave & strong,
I am not like her so sadly you're wrong!
I'm flattered though so thanks very much.
It comforts me like an Angel's sweet touch.
My mother is not far away, we're not truthfully apart.
Coz where ever she is she will be forever in my Heart.
Dry your tears.
You can shed tears that she is gone or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left,
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her or you can be full of the love you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday,
You can remember her and only that she’s gone or you can cherish her memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, or you can do what she’d want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
Found this today mum....
You only have one Mother
So patient kind and true
No other friend in all the world
Will be the same as you
When other friends forsake you
To her you can return
For all her loving kindness
She asks nothing in return
As we look upon her picture
Sweet memories we recall
Of a face so full of sunshine
And a smile for one and all
Her life was love and labour
Her love for the family - True
She did her best for everyone
And now says:-
God Bless you
Our Parents In Heaven
Happy Birhday Violet,,angels in heaven taken away from us when they should be still here loving us,, it hurts, but we must remember the hurt from which they are free from.
All my Love
Yvonne
I MISS YOU...
I picture you walking up the path
and walking through the door
I listen out for your gentle laugh
but i cant hear it anymore
I hold my hands out everyday
Hoping for your gentle touch
But i dont feel your warm hands touch me
Its a feeling i miss so much
I wait for you to wipe my tears
But you want yours wiping too
And everyday still hurts so much
Because my life is missing you
I keep your memory in my soul
It burns so bright each day
And all the things i have in my mind
Theres three words i want to say
I Miss You
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